You might be surprised by reading the title of this post, but it's a hard-core truth of the human life, of mankind, of eternity. First of all, the most important thing is, in this post two conditions I have already considered, one is marrying his gf and secondly, one has a gf for sure. ;)
Now all the ladies it seems, are one kind when they are as gf. Now when thearriage is done and the hubby and wifey started their life journey together in true sense, the real drama starts from then only.
There are so many situations, observations, sacrifices which can be realised only after starting to stay together. And believe me, from then onwards, all the earlier good signs you have probably noticed in her, might get vanished as you can get a clearer or eather I say newer picture of the very ar person. ;)
Ps: plz dont take it so seriously as I hope u could be the exceptional, though the chance ia really low. ;) Moreover plz dont be a feminist moral police either. :D
I am, what I am.
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Wednesday, August 10, 2016
Gf and wife, the same person is totally different... After marriage.
Completion of 2 years in NIACL.
So, after a long, really long time, I'm here again.
Last June, I have completed 2 years in my present company. As a total, I have work experience of 3 years now.
These 2 years in my present company, I got so much new experiences.
And the rule of the life is applicable here also. To get anuthing, we must have to forego something. Yes, uts true here also. My job is helping me to visit so many new places, to spend my life being an earner but all of these are definitely after paying some cost, in kind. We are in such a distance away from our home. Now a days it seems only twice or thrice we can visit our native. But for sacrificing the same, life is giving us so many opportunities and new things also. That's the positive energy which is driving us. :)
Monday, November 3, 2014
The time I have spent in Mumbai was awesome. In two phases our training was there in Mumbai, for 5 weeks & 3 weeks respectively. In between 4 weeks of OJT in the place of posting itself. In my case, its Udupi, Karnataka.
So, the 2 months I have spent in Mumbai was amazing. Yap, on the first phase there was tight training classes & Exams also, which we had to pass. Inspite of that hopefully we managed to visit some of the places. But in the second phase, it was quite amazing. In the time span of less than 3 weeks, we visited many places possible in Mumbai. Here we refers to only 3 persons including me as the equations of all friendship relations has been changed among all, after 1st phase & OJT respectively.
Then coming to Udupi, Karnataka. My place of posting, my temporary home for next some years. Getting a room here on rent is not that much tough, but whats tough is, getting it within legitimate amount. The main problem here is, being the Temple City, the pressure of pilgrims are always available here & Manipal, being one of the best Educational hub in India now, students are here. So, the landlords are not willing to provide the lease agreement as our company is seeking, only normal room rent agreement is available. For that, I am not able to utilize it & having pay rent from my own pocket.
Another thing is that, here the transport facility for my native home, kolkata is furious. I cant find any other word right now, which can fit into it. Bus service is pretty good within Karnataka, but if one has to go outside, terrible. Even I am 9 hrs bus journey away from Bangalore, and those buses are for overnight journey only.
Whatever, having all these pros & cons, I am spending my work days here. On weekend, visiting nearby temples is one of my main agenda. Being called as Temple City, that opportunity is most here in Udupi.... :)
So, for that purpose, I had to resign from my previous job. There was a mess in it, as I had applied for less than 30 days time, I had to give my one month's gross salary as damage there. Its actually for applying for resignation without giving 30 days notice period. And then it followed by going to Mumbai, trainings, exams, OJTs, again training and finally posting. Place of posting was already given for that mental preparation has also been made, where we have to go for our respective postings