One thing is for sure... we can't make every one happy at a particular given moment. If we try to make some of them happy, automatically the rest ones think we r not giving any attention to them. And by all true means, if we try to make everyone of them happy, we become the least happy person then. somehow we lose our significance to them.  true that expectation makes us greedy & fulfillment of expectation makes us even more.  but when that expectation doesn't fulfill from their point of view, they think we r changing, they never try to understand in which situation we r going through. If we don't tell anything personal to those close ones bcoz of some prejudices, they think we r avoiding them. which ultimately results a misunderstanding. finally, the natural happiness of our achievements to them drastically changes in silly colorless wishes. distance between persons occurs just bcoz of procedure of thinking & taking something into consideration, not bcoz of geographical distance in true sense.